The cure for unwillingness:
Whenever i am disturbed by resistance, no matter what the cause,
there is something wrong with me. This idea is like a
scapel to discect the ego's demands, projections, judgements, etc.
So I pray:
Please God take away from me this X
Make my life as you would have it be.
Show me thy will.
Thankyou for your guidance. Give me the awareness of the power to carry it out."
This response works for me to overcome all the
resistance and I encounter on a daily basis.